"If she's not on deen she's not fit to be your Queen. If he's not got Imaan he's not fit to be your man."
Setiap doa yang dipanjatkan, selalu terselip namamu yang entah dimana, siapa dan sedang apa. Bibir ini selalu basah akan dzikir dan doa untuk masa depan. Masa depan yang semoga senantiasa selalu diridhai-Nya.
Kesabaran dan keikhlasan hati tak kan pernah lelah menemani penantian akan kedatangannya, sebab keyakinan ini terlalu besar dan kuat kepada takdir Allah yang selalu paling baik.
Pada suatu waktu yang telah Allah tentukan, kita akan bertemu dalam ikatan yang disukai oleh-Nya.
Memenuhi separuh agama. Menuju Jannah bersama.
Kesabaran dan keikhlasan hati tak kan pernah lelah menemani penantian akan kedatangannya, sebab keyakinan ini terlalu besar dan kuat kepada takdir Allah yang selalu paling baik.
Pada suatu waktu yang telah Allah tentukan, kita akan bertemu dalam ikatan yang disukai oleh-Nya.
Memenuhi separuh agama. Menuju Jannah bersama.
♥ Beautiful Love Letter From A Husband To His Wife ♥
" You came as a
stranger. You stay with me as my shadow. You reflect as my mirror. In
you i found my other half. You rejected all your dreams. You gave me
your heart. You lend me your hands. In you I found my weapon. You taught
me what I knew not. You care for me like no one ever did. You lift me
up when I fall down. In you I found my inspiration. You are happy with
less. Though you give me loads. You make me speechless. In you I found
my way to Jannatul Firdaus. You make me smile when I cry. You show me
that you are only mine. You do everything to please me. In you I found
LOVE. Fisabillilah "
"Love is that condition in which the happiness
of another person is essential to your own." A woman wants her husband
to be strong in Deen, to be her best friend, someone she can share
secrets and jokes with. She wants to feel special, loved and understood.
If you want to be a good husband please realise that a woman's needs
are different to a man's. Your wife's main need is 'emotional'. Prophet
(PBUH) said: "The best of you are those who are best to their wife."
(Sahih Al-Bukhari)
When your wife feels weak, Be to her like a
father. When she cries, Be to her like a Mother. When she makes a
mistake, Be to her like a brother. When she complains, Be to her like a
friend. When she feels afraid, occupy her in your heart and be to her
like a lover. When she needs advice be to her like a sister. And make
her feel that you always with her and will not abandon her till death.
♥ Beautiful short story ♥
Wife asks husband: "What is the happiest moment
in your life?"
He looked at her face and said: "It has not yet come.."
She fell silent for a moment, then she asked: "And when will it be?"
He
said: "The day when you open the door and you say to me, 'my dear
husband, Assalaamu Alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh' - in our palace
in Jannah."
This is how all marriages should be, happiness but
the ultimate goal to attain Jannah by pleasing one another. The day you
complete half your deen. Just remember she's not just your wife but your
queen a gift from above from above. Ar Rahman Ar Raheem.
"Women
were made from the rib of man, not created from his head to top him. Not
from his feet to be stepped upon. But made from his side to be close to
him. From beneath his arm to be protected by him. Near his heart to be
loved by him."
"Don't ever in your life get fooled to think that
the value and worth of a Woman is in her beauty...
The true value of a
woman rests in her level of Taqwa and good deeds, not in her transient
(youthful look will pass over) worldly earnings."
♥ 20 Tips To Make Your Marriage Successful Insha'Allah ♥
1. Trust, help each other, be good and stay positive.
2. Please your spouse and make him/her feel special always.
3. Be humorous, playful, helpful, respectful and entertaining.
4. Never bring your past mistakes in your today.
5. Encourage and give hope to your spouse.
6. Do not compare each other even fortiny things.
7. Surprise your spouse with something new.
8. Spent time as much as you can.
9. Get ready for your spouse as they want you to get ready and look beautiful always.
10. Listen carefully and obey sincerely.
11. Avoid fighting, ignoring, lying, doubting, misbehaving and getting angry.
12. Be open and discuss your problems/ worries to your spouse.
13. If one of you is angry, the other should be quiet.
14. Don't argue. Simply say 'Sorry' whether it's your mistake or not.
15. Always make Dua to make your marriage successful and your relationship/ bond strong.
16. Always be thankful to your spouse.
17. Say 'I love you' to your spouse.
18. Understand each other.
19. Make eye contact while speaking.
20. Eat together, be together and pray together."
*text copied from https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-43xCh--6qM
